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Neil Lloyd Graff

Born: Tue., Oct. 8, 1985
Died: Mon., Oct. 30, 2017

Celebration of Life

Sun., Nov. 19, 2017
Location: Liberty North Banquet Hall


2:00 PM to 5:00 PM, Sun., Nov. 19, 2017
Location: Liberty North Banquet Hall

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GRAFF, Neil Lloyd

Passed away suddenly at his home in Barrie on Monday, October 30, 2017 at the age of 32.  Beloved son of Gary and Janice Graff.  Neil will be missed by extended family and many friends.

Cremation has taken place.  A celebration of life will take place at Liberty North, Java West, 100 Caplan Avenue, Barrie on Sunday, November 19, 2017 from 2-5 p.m.  Please advise by November 11, 2017 at 705-733-2447 if you are attending. Please come casual.  In lieu of flowers, donations in Neil’s memory can be made to the RVH Foundation for Teaching and Research or Simcoe-Muskoka Canadian Red Cross.


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Carol Penfound
   Posted Tue November 07, 2017
I was very sorry to hear about Neil.
I knew him briefly from working at BMO.

An awesome fun loving person, that will be missed.

My extended condolences go out to his family and friends.

Isaiah 57:1

May God uphold you and walk with you through this time.

Warm Regards,
Carol Penfound

Michael Jones
   Posted Tue November 07, 2017
Gone too soon. Neil, may your soul and the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace, through the mercies of God. Amen...... May your family and friends be comforted in the Word of God at this time.

Reba Inglis
   Posted Wed November 08, 2017
Neil will be missed dearly by all of us here in BMO. He was so genuine, friendly and caring. He will always be in my heart and mind.

My sincerest condolences to Neil's family.

Reba Inglis

Margarita Mora
   Posted Wed November 08, 2017

Very sad news to hear of Neil passing, I knew him from my dealings with him, from work,

he was the nicest guy – very helpful and kind. I am very sad to hear that he has left the

body. He projected tenderness love and understanding and that is the only thing we can do

for him send him love and peace in our prayers!!!!

Leo Nathan
   Posted Wed November 08, 2017
My condolances to the family. Neil will be greatly missed

Gord Graff
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
Gary and Jan,

Please accept our heartfelt condolences and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your loss is great and it’s a loss that is felt by everyone who knew Neil.

From the time Neil was a child he exhibited his true nature, one of kindness and caring towards others. There are very few people in the world today that are truly kind, caring and unselfish, Neil was one of those few. From the moment you met Neil you couldn’t help but instantly like him, his kindness towards others was there for all to see.

Neil will be deeply missed by all who knew him, your loss is a loss that is shared by all who were touched by Neil’s life.

Gord, Marianne & Matthew Graff

Martin Sasse
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Neil’s sudden passing. Although I never had the privilege of meeting Neil in person here at BMO, we had numerous interactions via phone and internal messaging. As busy as Neil was, he always had time to offer help or advice. In addition to being a genuinely nice person, it immediately became clear that he was a person with integrity who cared about his job and those whom he supported. When Neil said that he would look into something or call back, he did. He exemplified what it means to be a BMO employee and was a great asset to us all. He will be greatly missed.

My deepest condolences to Neil’s Mom & Dad and family.

Martin Sasse

Russell Pereira
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
My sincere condolences to the Graff family for your loss.

Efrem Gomes
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
My sincerest condolences to Neil's family. I spent most of my time sitting beside him in my initial role at BMO and found him to be a very reserved, kind, down to Earth spirit.

Just a very sincere human being who exemplified kindness.
God Bless him & his family.

Dina Camara
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
Neil was a co-worker and more importantly a kind friend. I enjoyed our conversations which usually ended in a good laugh together...Neil had a wonderful, strong laugh, it was contagious. He always put a smile on my face. I will miss his dearly. My heart goes our to Neil's mom and dad. xo

Robert Tinca
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
My condolences. May Neil continue his eternal journey in peace.

Ann Dimkin
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
My sincere condolences go out to the entire family. Neil meant a lot to many people at BMO and will be missed dearly and forever in many hearts. God Bless.

Melanie Roberts-Porter
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
Jan and Garry,
We are in total shock at the news of Neil. I can't imagine what your going through. He was way too young. RIP beautiful boy, you will be missed.
Steve and I will be away for the celebration of life so I wanted to let you know we are thinking of you. All our love and kisses
Melanie XXX

Marianne Kettlewell
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
So saddened to hear of Neil's passing. It seems like yesterday when we were all together at the "kids table." Our condolences, Janice and Gary.

Dave and Marianne

Dawn Balfour
   Posted Thu November 09, 2017
I have tried to write something here many times and it's difficult to express how sad I feel that Neil has passed. What a wonderful person he was. So kind and quiet but always had a smile to share. I will miss his bear hugs and his smiling face. Strength, support and love to his Mom and Dad. My heart goes out to you. Rest in Peace Neil.

Brandon Witzig
   Posted Fri November 10, 2017
My sincere condolences to the family of Neil,

We will miss having you around at work and your positive attitude.

Brandon Witzig

Ken & Daphne Roberts
   Posted Sun November 12, 2017
Janice and Gary - Thinking of you at this difficult time.May all the warm and special memories you shared with Neil stay with you and bring you comfort through all the days ahead. Daphne and I send you our deepest sympathies.

Lorna and Daniel Felstead
   Posted Sun November 12, 2017
No words can express the sorrow we feel for your loss. My heart aches for you. Neil was a wonderful young man with a big heart and a beautiful spirit. A true testament of wonderful parents. We feel blessed to have been part of his life and he will forever live in our hearts.

“ Death leaves a heartache that no one can heal; Love leaves a memory that no one can steal” May love and memories get you through this very difficult time.

Mark Johnston
   Posted Mon November 13, 2017
I am very shocked that Neil has passed away and I offer my sincerest condolences.

Neil was a very sincere young man and very passionate about learning. I remember way back when I hired him for a work term during his college course and he was very keen on learning "everything". We went to lunch together a few times during the years after that and I remember him as a very kind and honest person who cared about people. Rest in peace my friend.

Mark Johnston

Mark Fillier
   Posted Mon November 13, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. I knew Neil from our college days at Georgian.

R.I.P. my friend. Taken too soon.

Rita Pittman
   Posted Wed November 15, 2017
My sincere regrets to the Graff family in their loss of a very pleasant young man. I had the pleasure to work with Neil while he attended Georgian College. Assisting him with his career/job search activities.
Thoughts and prayers are with you, Rita Pittman, Co-op Consultant.

   Posted Thu November 16, 2017
Heart felt thoughts are being sent your way to let you know you are in our thoughts.
See you Sunday.

Michael Goarley
   Posted Thu November 16, 2017
I am still in shock at Neil's sudden passing. I worked with Neil at BMO and was just becoming friends with Neil over the last few months. We were often the last two in the office at the end of the day and we would talk about our shared interests.
My condolences to Neil's family.

Susan Prosser
   Posted Sat November 18, 2017
Dear Jan and Gary,

I am touched deeply by all the beautiful messages that have been written by Neil's family members and friends. It is true. at least with Neil, that the good die young. There are no words to express the depth of caring for your sorrow and there are no words that can heal. Just know that we care deeply. I will bring hugs and love from everyone here when I see you tomorrow. I send you my love always.

Karen A. Banner
   Posted Sat November 18, 2017
Dearest Janice and Gary,

May God's grace and understanding be with you all the days and hours of your lives to come, minute by minute, as you continue to grieve this incredulous loss of your beautiful boy, Neil Lloyd.

Even if we do not understand why such painful, heartfelt loss is possible to even exist, especially for loving parents to cope with -- you three are each and together, forever and ever, surrounded by and filled within by God's reliable, strong, steadfast and deep, deep dependable, limitless love.

Although I did not have the joy of meeting you, dear Neil, I am reading such wonderous, heartfelt messages about you, I know you to be a prince of peace, a giant among men and a loving, caring spirit who will always be a beacon of hope for mankind. One who served God well. With love to you and your mom and dad.

With deepest sympathy to Janice and Gary,
Cousin Karen

Jennifer Bremner
   Posted Wed December 20, 2017
Janice & Gary,

I was just so heartbroken to hear of Neil's passing. You have endured the greatest heartache one can, the passing of your beautiful son, and I am so so sorry for your loss. Since hearing of this devastating news, my thoughts have been with your both so often. I'm sorry the distance made traveling home for his Celebration of Life too difficult. Please know my heart was with you.

Neil was like a cousin to us Kettlewell and Kelday kids growing up, always a part of our holiday celebrations. Always kind and polite he was a pleasure to be around. I am honored I had a chance to know him and he will always be a part of my childhood memories.

I'm glad I got to speak to you Janice and I am so sorry you have to endure this type of pain and loss. The bond you shared with your precious boy was everlasting. You shared an incredible mother and son bond of which many parents would envy. Thank you for sharing him with us as well. I wish you and Gary much strength, peace and healing. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Love Jen & Bremner Family

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