It is with profound sadness and heavy hearts that her children announce the peaceful passing of Helen Lorene Beintema, 79, a beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend, on August 5, 2026, in the Royal Victoria Regional Health Centre.
Born on December 20, 1946, in Newmarket, Ontario. Helen's life was a testament to love, an abundance of laughter, and dedication.
Helen is survived by her three devoted and loving children, Kevin (Angela), Jason (Julie) and Kim (Brad). She will be deeply missed by her four grandchildren, Darrin, Courtney, Avery and Morgan, brother Robert Meltcalfe (Pat) and sister Dorothy Mullens (Wally). She also shared a special bond with her niece, Mary Ann Kotylak.
She is predeceased by her parents, George and Muriel Metcalfe, and best friend and sister Margerite Fairbarn.
She will be deeply missed by her York Regional Police family where she proudly worked as a civilian for over 23 years and made many lifelong friends.
Helen left an imprint on anyone who was lucky enough to cross her path. She loved a good party and lit up every room she entered and was never one to turn down a game of cards or board game, and she loved to travel with her friends. Anyone who knows her knows she loved to laugh and have fun.
Her memory will live on through her family and many friends, whose lives have been enriched by her laughter, smile, humour and unwavering love.
Rest in peace Mom…until we meet again.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Helen’s name to the Royal Victoria Regional Health Centre Foundation would be greatly appreciated.
Andrea Stapley
Posted on: Tuesday, August 11, 2026My sincere heart felt condolences to all of you. Mommy was a special lady with so much love in her heart.
Gary Miner
Posted on: Tuesday, August 11, 2026Dear:
Kim and family please accept my condolences.
I worked with your mom.
Helen scheduled all our annual re-qualification training at work, for years and years.
She was part of our breakfast group into retirement. We had many high volume(loud) and good laugh conversations.
Thank you for sharing her with us.
Sincerely Gary Miner (retired) Barrie Ontario
Jim Carman
Posted on: Tuesday, August 11, 2026Sending my sincere condolences to Helen’s entire family. We will miss Helen but have many fond memories💔
Jim Carman Sgt #177 retired
Sandi Phillips
Posted on: Tuesday, August 11, 2026I’m so sorry for your loss. I met your mom at our retired breakfast club and knew right away that we would be good friends. She certainly knew how to liven up a conversation and laugh! She could get us all laughing! We will miss her and I wish we had been friends longer.
Darlene & Rick McVeity
Posted on: Tuesday, August 11, 2026Sending our deepest condolences to Kim, Jason, Kevin and the rest of the family. Rick and I have such great memories of your Mom. She was always smiling, laughing and ready for fun. We loved every Fairbarn family get together with her. You are all in our thoughts & prayers. Darlene & Rick McVeity
Steve Baird
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026My condolences to family members and close friends.
I worked with Helen at the end of my career and what a pleasure it was.
She looked after us and I can hear her laugh as write this.
Rest in peace Helen and thank you for being you. 🙏
Steve Baird #468 (retired)
Kim Kennedy
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026Hello and my sincerest condolences to all of Helen’s family and friends. She had the heart of an angel and we all knew this. I have known Helen since she started with York Regional Police as I’m sure her first position was in Training – and I was there at the time. I have very fond memories of a woman who was so nervous coming into our crazy environment and doing everything we could to make it work for her. From the moment I met Helen, I knew she was a person filled with kindness, determination, humour and love. Please know that we all adored your mother, grandma, aunt and sister. She was a true delight.
Debbie Beintema
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026My deepest sympathies to Kevin, Jason, & Kim and their families at this very sad time.
Prayers to the family. Helen you were the best. RIP Helen.
Love from Aunt Debbie Beintema
William Janes
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026I knew Helen from the years I worked at YRP. She was a wonderful person! Always smiling and so pleasant to be around. I offer my condolences to her family.
Will Janes #189, (retired).
Kathy Westlake
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026Helen and I, spent many hours together watching Jason and my son “Bud” varga playing baseball. Helen was always so upbeat and fun to spend time with. May your memories bring you comfort. Kathy Westlake
Jim McHardy
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026May God bless Helen.
She was a wonderful person.
Jim ( retired YRP)
Tony Cusimano
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026My condolences to Helen’s family. I spent a significant portion of my career with YRP at 4 District, where the Training Branch was located. Helen was a wonderful person to work with and to be around. She always had a positive disposition and a knack for delivering one-liners that kept everyone laughing.
My thoughts and prayers are with Helen’s family during this difficult time of mourning.
Helen, may you rest in peace.
Andrew Quibell
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026My sincere condolences to Helen’s family and close friends.
I have fond memories of Helen at YRP Training Branch. Whether it was the friendly voice on the other end of the phone or a welcoming smile to solve all of the problems of the moment, Helen was always a pleasure to work with.
Richard Yellapah
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026My deepest condolences to the family. I worked briefly with Helen. She was a kind and pleasant person. RIP Helen….Richard Yellapah
Shelley Rogers
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026What a life well-lived. Helen was such a great part of YRP for so long. She really had fun with it, took care of our members so well. I always loved my interactions with her as she was so upbeat and fun. I hold her family in my prayers for strength and comfort in this time of loss.
Paul Davies
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026My Dearest condolences to you all during this time, I remember Mrs. Bientema as a loving supporting Mom to her kids that would do her best to support them. Thoughts and prayers during this difficult time to all of you. Rest in Peace.
Mike Burns
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026I worked with Helen for many years in the Training Branch. She was the best!!!
I loved her spirit and dedication to work and appreciated her friendship.
My deepest sympathy to Helen’s family and loved ones – she will be dearly missed…
Armand LaBarge
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026Denise and I want to extend our most heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathies to Helen’s family, friends and former colleagues on her passing. Helen was the kind of person who naturally brought warmth and laughter to every occasion and her kindness was both effortless and deeply genuine.
We will keep Helen’s family in our thoughts and prayers in the difficult days ahead, and we will pray for the repose of her soul and for the souls of all the faithfully departed.
Rest in peace.
Armand and Denise LaBarge
Shirley de Peuter
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026Helen was my sister-in-law for 40 years. She was the ray of sunshine and laughter that brightened all of our family get togethers. Our sincere condolences to Kevin, Jason, and Kim and their families. You have lost a wonderful mom. Aunt Shirley and Uncle Dave.
Gary Fairbarn& Marilyn
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026Our condolences to Kevin,
Kim,Jason & families.
Helen was a great sister-in-law and friend.
Helen was full of fun and we will remember her laugh forever.
Rest in peace Helen, you have earned it!!
Gary Fairbarn& Marilyn
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026Our condolences to Kevin,Kim,Jason and families.
Helen was a great sister-in-law and friend. Helen was always full of fun and we will remember her laugh forever.
Rest in peace Helen, you’ve earned it!!💔
May ford
Posted on: Wednesday, August 12, 2026My condolences to Helen’s family. I was so shocked to hear of Helen’s passing. I worked with her at 2 district. Helen was a very kindhearted person who loved to laugh and enjoy life. We enjoyed many good times together . We lost touch during Covid. Thank you Helen for your friendship. May you rest in peace
Peter Jelley
Posted on: Thursday, August 13, 2026To Helen’s family. Please accept my sincere condolences on Helen’s passing. I was very fortunate to have worked with her in the YRP Training Branch. She was the motor that kept it running. Helen was always smiling and had a superb sense of humour that kept us all on our toes. May the many memories that you have help you through this most difficult time.
Brian Ball
Posted on: Thursday, August 13, 2026I had the privilege and honour of working with Helen for several years in the YRP Training Branch. Her presence at work made a difference in our daily lives with a rare kindness whose dedication and spirit touched many. The lessons, laughs and light she brought will never fade and will forever be in our hearts.
To her family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the love and support around you.
Susan Ventimiglia (Vitins)
Posted on: Friday, August 14, 2026My deepest condolences to the family. I am so very sorry for your loss. May all your happy memories give you all peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Kathy Krueger
Posted on: Friday, August 14, 2026My heartfelt sympathy to all of Helens family and friends. She and I both worked in administrative roles with YRP and it was always a pleasure to chat with Helen when I needed something from the District or Training Branch. She was certainly my go to person. I am sure her friendly smile and sense of humour will be missed by all who knew her. May happy memories help to ease your sadness.
André Crawford
Posted on: Tuesday, August 25, 2026Many years ago I was the officer-in-charge of the Training Branch when it was located at 4 District. What a pleasure it was to have Helen as my Administrative Assistant. Our office was in a small, dare I say cramped, area on the second floor. So I could easily hear Helen’s interactions with members either on the phone or in person at her desk. She was always welcoming, positive and many a time I found myself smiling at the way she was able to set somebody straight in a nice way. Helen made us laugh, even on those tough days. She was wonderful to work with.
My heartfelt condolences to Helen’s family. I will be travelling in Europe and unable to attend Helen’s Celebration of Life in October. But please rest assured that on that day I will have you in my thoughts and prayers.
Helen, may you rest in peace.
André Crawford #473 (retired)