Matthea (Thea) Everdina VanGeel, nee Wouterse, formally of Newmarket and Cobourg, Ontario died peacefully at Amica at Barrie Retirement Residence in her 84th year on December 27, 2017. Born in Utrecht, Netherlands, Thea is survived by her children Mary-Ann, Colleen (Mick), Peter, Debbie (Mike) and Mieke (Marty) and her nine grandchildren Lisa (Jay), Stephen, Jack (Gabriela), Will (Rachel), Amber, Jazzmin (Adam), Curtis, Matthew, and Brendan. Thea is predeceased by her beloved husband Pete, and siblings, Henk, Greet, Clary, and Mieke.
Thea was a long time employee at Southlake Regional Centre (formerly known as York County Hospital). She enjoyed golfing, swimming and bowling and a true crossword aficionado and last but most definitely not least, a devoted wife and mom.
In keeping with Thea's wishes, there will be no funeral services. A private celebration of life will be held in the spring. If you desire, donations can be made to Southlake Regional Hospital in Thea’s memory.
Mary-Ann
Posted on: Thursday, January 4, 2018Do not ask me to remember
Don’t try to make me understand
Let me rest and know you’re with me
Kiss my cheek and hold my hand
I’m confused beyond your concept
I am sad and sick and lost
All I know is that I need you
To be with me at all cost
Do not lose your patience with me
Do not scold or curse or cry
I can’t help the way I’m acting
Can’t be different though I try
Just remember that I need you
That the best of me is gone
Please don’t fail to stand by me
Love me ‘til my life is done
We will miss you forever xxoo
Stephen relf
Posted on: Thursday, January 4, 2018R.i.p oma I’ll always think of you when eating my cookie sandwich and i still turn my head when I hear someone call the name Peter lol. But uncle Pete don’t flatter yourself… she only called me Peter cause I was the son she never had. So many great memories with my oma and opa… from stealing his chair during golf to using omas exercise wheel rolling down the hallways of their home in Newmarket. Miss you and always in my heart
Your favourite grandson Steve
Mieke Busmanas
Posted on: Thursday, January 4, 2018Each day I watch my mother walk.
I hear her sigh, I hear her talk.
She speaks of loved ones no longer here.
I watch helpless, as she sheds a tear.
Alzheimer’s is stealing my mother away,
And she grows worse each passing day.
She needs help with all her care,
From getting dressed to brushing her hair.
We cut her food to help her eat.
This once tidy woman is no longer neat.
She often seems to live in the past,
Please dear God, how long will this last?
As her memory goes, I can only stand by,
Frustrated and helpless, and yes…I’ll cry.
Those who love her, she no longer knows.
How long till her memory completely goes?
Each day I watch my mother walk.
I hear her sigh, I hear her talk.
I watch daily as she slowly dies.
I can’t help her, and yes…I’ll cry.
Patrizia D'Ignazio
Posted on: Thursday, January 4, 2018My sincerest condolances Mary-Ann to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pat