Ross Jackson Dummer

July 17, 1965 - March 17, 2023

Funeral Details: A Private Celebration of Life will be announced.

Ross Jackson Dummer

 

Ross Jackson Dummer, age 57, of Sharon, Ontario passed away suddenly from a heart attack. Ross is survived by his sister Jane Dummer, his aunts Doris Dummer and Gladys Penney plus several cousins and friends who loved him dearly. Ross was preceded in death by his parents Jack and Lou Dummer.

 

Ross grew up in Cambridge, Ontario and attended the University of Guelph. Ross had long-time career in social services and recently retired from the Regional Municipality of York. Friends and family would describe Ross as a kind, dependable, gentle soul who felt life very deeply. He cared for the wellbeing of others and was a nurturing person. Ross had a small, close circle and he would go to great lengths for the people he cared about. He enjoyed cooking, BBQing and hanging out, especially in the summer, with family, friends and his pets.

 

Ross had a passion for art, music and antiques. He enjoyed going to antique stores and auctions, and collecting local artists’ works. He was an animal lover who rescued seven pets in his lifetime. Ross also had a unique, creative side and a terrific sense of humour. He had a gift of a long-term memory and fondly recalled all those who touched his life over the years. His warmth and generous spirit will be missed by all who knew him.

 

Cremation has taken place and a private celebration of life will be held in summer of 2023. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made directly to the York Region SPCA Humane Society (In Memory of Ross Dummer) https://ontariospca.ca/yorkregion/  Arrangements entrusted to Peaceful Transition York (2-15236 Yonge Street, Aurora) and condolences may be forwarded through www.peacefultransition.ca

 

 

 

 

CONDOLENCES

21 Condolences
  • Dave Logan
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 22, 2023 Reply

    Ross was a friend from grade 10-13 at Southwood Secondary and I have nothing but good memories of him! Especially that red sports car!
    I was fortunate to see him again in 2017, and pleased that we had followed similar paths in life! Best wishes to his family and close friends at this time.

  • Margaret O'Dowd
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 22, 2023 Reply

    Dear Jane, My deepest sympathy for your loss of this great person, Ross, your brother. He was incredible person. I use to see him on a regular bases at his neighbors, my sisters house, Jane and Craig’s house. He was part of their family and was odd when I did not see his smiling face at their place. when I heard Ross was cooking I knew we were going to have his delicious salmon on the bar-b-que. Ross will never be forgotten. Margaret

  • Suzanne Wildfong
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 22, 2023 Reply

    I remember wonderful times with Ross at St. Andrews Street School where we sat beside each other and both prayed the saxophone, he played tennor and I played alto. We laughed a lot and spent some great times together. One day in particular, his family took me fishing to a trout pond where Ross wanted to teach me how to fish. He caught a cold, and we all laughed when I caught the biggest fish! Rest in peace by wonderful friend. I will never forget you!❤

  • Patricia Herdman
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 22, 2023 Reply

    My condolences on the loss of your only brother, Jane. Though I never met him personally, I admired his respect for his pets and with his deep love for animals, I think of his pets meeting him at the Rainbow Bridge with Jem out in front. May he rest in peace.

  • Donna Berry
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 22, 2023 Reply

    Dear Jane, I am so sorry for your loss. While I never met Ross, I feel like I know him from all our conversations. Sounds like a great guy! Remember all the good times.

  • Jackie Simone Hickey
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 22, 2023 Reply

    I share this photo of special friends who all knew Ross. As we all went our separate ways in life from our humble beginnings in Cambridge, to reunite is a treasure. Ross was a part of my childhood and to hear of his passing leaves a void, losing childhood friends hits hard as we go down this aging journey. My deepest condolences to family and friends, RIP Ross and say hello to our dear friends who we have lost along the way.

  • Nicole Downie
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 22, 2023 Reply

    Jane, you’ve been through so much loss these past few years (Dad Jack, Mom Lou, and now your brother Ross). This is shocking news and I’m so sorry to hear it.

    Ross and I were married in 1994 for 15 years and remained friends over the years. He was a gentle soul who loved music, nature, and his beloved pets. Rest easy, Ross.

    Nicole
    💚

  • Fabio Corvaglia
    Posted on: Thursday, March 23, 2023 Reply

    I was shocked when I first heard of Ross’ passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you Jane during this difficult time.
    I am sorry that I lost touch with Ross shortly after university….I would return “home” from my work overseas every summer but never managed to connect.
    We had such great times during my 3 years at Southwood (Gr. 11-13)…Ross was one of the gang….many fond memories.
    Unfortunately, all of my photos are in Cambridge so am not able to upload any (currently overseas). Will share some photos during the summer celebration.
    Rest in Peace buddy!

  • Natalie Pezzente
    Posted on: Thursday, March 23, 2023 Reply

    To a kind, gentle, and special soul, you will be missed deeply. Sending so much love and strength to your family durring this difficult time.

  • Simon Ferrazzi
    Posted on: Thursday, March 23, 2023 Reply

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    Thank you

    Simon

  • Jan Engs
    Posted on: Friday, March 24, 2023 Reply

    Ross played in the Southwood Concert Band for many years under my directorship. He and his parents were outstanding members of West Galt. Ross’ wit, charm and dedication to our band and many band exchanges was treasured. His 5 o’clock shadow presented him as older and wiser beyond his years!😄 I will miss him greatly and am very saddened by his sudden and early passing. Sending love to his family.

  • JACKIE TERSIGNI
    Posted on: Friday, March 24, 2023 Reply

    Taken way too soon. I worked with Ross for many years and will always remember how sweet and kind he was as well as all the laughs we shared.

  • Simon Ferrazzi
    Posted on: Friday, March 24, 2023 Reply

    Dear Jane and family.

    My condolences with respect to Ross’s passing; very sad. I will remember Ross’s friendship fondly and wish to share with you a few highlights of our time together. I first encountered Ross’s openness and friendship when entering Grade 11 at Southwood Secondary High School in Cambridge. A small group of us arrived there from a local Junior-High and started that difficult task of trying to fit into established social groups. Ross readily extended himself, quickly stepped in and helped in our transition, and this led to the development of a very enjoyable and close network of friends, of which Ross was a part of, and we regularly hung-out during the final years of high-school, and thru the College/University years. Several of us in the newly budding group including Ross found part-time employment at the once popular A&P grocery store in Cambridge, and often went out after work on weekends for a simple fast-food meal or to local dance bars, just to hang with a beverage. We enjoyed his company while the group stirred things up during Grand Bend summer cottage vacations, occasional concerts in Toronto, and basketball games in his Galt neighbourhood. Ross was a gentle and kind person, and I value the times we shared growing up. I will miss him, as I am sure will others. I hope to join you in a celebration of Ross’s life this coming summer. Sincerely, Simon Ferrazzi.

  • Alana Gentile
    Posted on: Saturday, March 25, 2023 Reply

    My condolences to your family on the loss of such a sweet and kind man. Ross will truly be missed.

  • Kevin and Jane Power
    Posted on: Saturday, March 25, 2023 Reply

    We were all so sadden by the passing of Ross. He truly was a good guy. People say this phase but Ross truly was. We enjoyed seeing him especially with Gem when he would visited us on the Doran’s deck. We had good conversations and laughs. He will be truly missed.

  • Cerian Segal
    Posted on: Saturday, March 25, 2023 Reply

    I was and still am so very shocked of Ross’ passing.

    He was one of the most gentle, caring selfless people that I know, always putting others first including me. He was humbly smart, funny and such a breath of fresh air to be around.

    He was a colleague for many years but more so a true and loyal friend that I will miss dearly.
    Forever in my heart my dear friend, Rest in peace.

    My thoughts and prayers go out to you Jane and extended family during this very difficult time.

    Cerian Segal

  • Rich Preece
    Posted on: Saturday, March 25, 2023 Reply

    Dear Jane

    I am so sorry to hear of Ross’s passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Ross became my friend in Grade 7 at St. Andrew’s School and we continued to be friends throughout high school, university, and beyond. Ross was always a thoughtful and caring person and he introduced me to many of the friends I still have today. We had many fun times playing sports, talking about music, and nights out on the town. Ross, you will be greatly missed.

  • Phyllis Hodder
    Posted on: Tuesday, March 28, 2023 Reply

    My condolences to the family. I worked with Ross for a while in Richmond Hill. He was a very laid back guy which I loved. He always had a positive attitude and was easy to talk too. I am sorry you did not get to enjoy your retirement.

  • Melissa Francis
    Posted on: Tuesday, March 28, 2023 Reply

    Peace, Prayers and Blessings. Ross was an amazing co-worker and more importantly a friend. So humble and kind. One of the most genuine people you could ever meet. You will definitely be missed.
    Love “Meliss”.

  • Doran Family
    Posted on: Tuesday, March 28, 2023 Reply

    Jane:

    Ross was more than just a neighbour to us for over 20 years. He grew to become part of our extended family.
    We were together in good times and not so good times. In the summer, he spent a countless number of hours with us on our deck discussing everything from politics, baseball, how hot it was or how to mix the perfect mojito. In the winter, we got together to watch hockey, enjoy a Starbucks coffee or discuss the “topic of the day”.
    When we got together he was truly interested in what you had to say. He listened to you and gave his input.
    He always told us how much he enjoyed sharing appetizers with you. He did enjoy his brie and crackers!
    He was a loyal, thoughtful and true friend to our family and we will all miss him.
    Craig, Jane, JJ and Kevin Doran

  • Kelly Hamelin
    Posted on: Monday, April 10, 2023 Reply

    Our condolences to Ross’ family and friends. My family is shocked and saddened to hear of Ross’ passing. We are neighbours, and although we did not know Ross well, he always waved to us as he drove by our house. We would wave to each other when we were out in our backyards and we did speak with him over the fence on a few occasions about the weather, and of animals & pets. I could sense Ross’ compassion for animals as we would also see him outside with one of his dogs and I would often see his cat sleeping in his front window when I was out on a walk.
    In Ross’ name, we have made a contribution to the OSPCA. Ross’ legacy will live on in others. May he rest in peace.

    Kelly Hamelin, Wes, Jarod and Jake Maynard

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