Stella Funmilayo Longe

January 31, 1953 - February 4, 2025

Funeral Details: Private family arrangements

Biography of Stella Funmilayo Longe

Stella Funmilayo Longe was born into the loving family of Madame Esther Abejide and Pa John Ogunsakin (Baba Alasa) of Usin in Ikole Ekiti Local Government, Ekiti State on 31ST of January 1951. She attended St. Peters Anglican Primary School Ikole Ekiti for her early education. After completing basic education, her parents recognized her passion for knitting craftsmanship and enrolled her as an apprentice in knitting and crafts from 1969 to 1971.

Her dedication and creativity in craft were remarkable, as she quickly became an expert, introducing innovative knitting designs and techniques. Her skill and commitment attracted many young women, and over the years, she trained and mentored several apprentices, many of whom have gone on to establish their own knitting businesses. Her tutelage and mentorship in craftsmanship empowered other women to become self-reliant, leaving behind a lasting impact in her community.

She was well respected in her community for her skills, and her handiwork was sought after far and wide.

On April 23, 1972, she married the Late Chief Daniel Olubayode Longe, the Edemo of Ootunja Ekiti. Their union was a testament to love, dedication, and mutual respect, and they were blessed with five accomplished children, who have excelled in various professional fields, including a Professor, a Mining Engineer/Pastor, an Educator, a Banker, and a Doctorate holder in Computer Science/ Cybersecurity.

Passion for Knitting/Craftsmanship

Even after marriage, Stella Funmilayo Longe remained committed to her vocation, continuing her knitting and craftsmanship until the very end because it was her passion. She did not let family responsibilities deter her from perfecting her craft, and she used her talent to support her family financially and empower others. Her dedication to knitting and design was not just a means of livelihood but a lifelong passion that brought her immense joy and fulfillment.

Faith and Church Involvement

Stella Funmilayo Longe was a devout Christian who loved Christ deeply and actively participated in church activities. She was a dedicated member of the African Church, Adiyan, where she served as the leader of the Omoogun Kristi group. During her leadership, she organized several events for the group, chaired important meetings, and played a significant role in the church’s spiritual and social activities.

In addition to her role at the African Church, she was also an active member of the Good Women Group of the Anglican Church of Epiphany, Adiyan. Through this group, she contributed to various charity works, women’s empowerment programs, and church developmental projects. Her faith was a guiding force in her life, and she used every opportunity to inspire others to walk in faith and serve God wholeheartedly.

Leadership and Community Service

Stella Funmilayo Longe was not just a devoted wife and mother but also a leader and a vital figure in her community. During their stay in Adiyan, she became the first and pioneer woman to lead the Alabi Afuye Landlord Wives/Landladies Association, guiding them successfully from 2002 to 2008. She served in this position for six years before handing over the leadership to Alhaji Adegbola’s wife.
Her dedication to community service extended further, as she also held the post of Deputy Women Leader of the Surulere Community Development Association (CDA) under the leadership of Mr. Rasheed Adejumo from 2008 to 2012.

Through these roles, she was instrumental in uniting and empowering women in her community, advocating for their welfare and ensuring that their voices were heard in community matters.

Later Life and Achievements

Beyond her professional and family life, Stella Funmilayo Longe was a pillar of her community, actively involved in mentoring young women and empowering them with skills in knitting and crafts. She was known for her generosity, always willing to teach others and support those in need.

She was also deeply committed to faith and community service, often dedicating her time to church activities and local women’s empowerment initiatives. Her humility, kindness, and wisdom left a lasting impression on everyone she met.

Dedication to Family and Education

Despite not having a formal education herself, Stella never let that limit her dreams for her children. She strongly believed in the power of education and worked tirelessly to support her late husband in ensuring that all their children received a solid education up to the university level. Through her knitting business, she contributed financially to their schooling, making personal sacrifices to guarantee their academic success.

Stella and her husband had a deep love for academics, and this passion is reflected in their children’s achievements today. Their unwavering support for education produced scholars and professionals who continue to make meaningful contributions in their respective fields.

A Loving and Accommodating Matriarch

Beyond her immediate family, Stella was a loving, caring, and accommodating woman. She embraced her extended family with open arms, ensuring that everyone felt welcomed and supported in her home. She provided emotional and moral support to relatives, offering her love, concern and respect to younger family members. Her generosity knew no bounds, and her home was always a place of warmth and hospitality for both family members and visitors.

Legacy

Her legacy lives on through the numerous individuals she mentored, her children, and the many lives she touched with her kindness. Stella Funmilayo Longe is survived by her children and grandchildren, who will continue to uphold the values of love, hard work, and faith that she instilled in them.

She will always be remembered as a loving wife, a devoted mother, a skillful craftswoman, a community leader, a committed Christian, and an inspiration to many.

Stella Funmilayo - Eulogy

Omo Usin Aoyo, Omo Asoro maho ekoto reni , Omo Onigbo asamoju, Omo Anukan Jo Anukan horaran, Omo kan ba gbo gigun nipasa kan mo wemu ran nijafo. Omo olore, Omo amuron, omo apagbogbo gbogbo kij, inrala lurona. Sun ree oooo….

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CONDOLENCES

10 Condolences
  • Olufisayo Olukunle Longe
    Posted on: Friday, February 28, 2025 Reply

    Eyeee Olumii… as I fondly call you. A mother like no other—one who epitomized strength, love, passion, and an unparalleled work ethic. No words can truly capture the depth of your love, which you poured into us—your children, grandchildren, relatives, extended family, and even neighbors. You were a woman whose heart overflowed with love, and you demonstrated it in every way possible, even beyond this world.
    Seyi once told me, “I saw my grandma Olu in my dreams, patting me on the back.” Even in eternity, your love transcends.
    After my father’s passing, my greatest concern was you. I prayed and hoped you would stay with us for at least twenty more years—smiling at the thought—but God had His own plans. Who are we to question Him? Even in death, your love for your husband remained unwavering. You stood by him in every possible way, sacrificing so much. Whenever I asked you to come visit, your response was always the same: “I don’t want to leave my husband alone.” Even on your hospital bed, you told Funmi you needed to go home and cook for him. That was when I realized—you were seeing something beyond what we could comprehend.
    You were an inspiring soul, always there for anyone who came to you with their troubles. You comforted them with kind words, wise counsel, and a warm heart. Your home was open to all, and your hospitality made everyone feel valued. “Iye Olu” is a never-ending song in my heart, a melody of comfort, happiness, and love.
    In your own way, you became a mother to so many—even those unrelated by blood. You nurtured and guided countless people from childhood to adulthood. You were a strong advocate for education, always reminding us, “In all thy getting, get educated.” Your marriage to my late father became a reference point for others; people sought your wisdom, and you played a role in resolving family matters.
    You also encouraged both the young and old to embrace your craft—knitting—especially struggling young couples. With gentle persuasion, you urged wives to take up the skill, assuring them it could support their families. You even went further, speaking to their husbands to secure the necessary tools and machines, always reassuring them that their wives would soon become experts. And you didn’t stop there—you went above and beyond, introducing them to organizations where their services would be needed, ensuring they had a foundation to build upon.
    Your love was boundless, your kindness immeasurable, and your legacy everlasting. You were, and always will be, a mother like no other.
    Rest on Stella….Rest Well Funmilayo…..Adieu

  • Oluwafunmilola Aderannibi Adepegba (nee Longe)
    Posted on: Friday, February 28, 2025 Reply

    A Tribute to My Beloved Mother, Stella Funmilayo Longe (Nee Ogunsakin)
    A mother’s love is the purest form of sacrifice, and my dear mother, Stella Funmilayo Longe, was the very definition of selflessness, resilience, and unconditional love. She was a hardworking woman who stood as the backbone of our family, supporting our father and ensuring that we, her children, had the best opportunities in life.
    Despite not having a formal education, she worked tirelessly, using her craft in cardigan knitting to provide for us. She was warm, accommodating, and a friend to all family members, always putting the needs of her family above her own.
    When my father retired in 1997, life took a difficult turn. I had just started secondary school, and we had moved to Adiyan, a rural area. My mother, determined to give me the best education possible, made a bold decision—she refused to let me suffer through the long daily journey from Adiyan to Agege for school, nor did she want me to settle for a less-equipped school nearby. With the little income she earned from knitting, she enrolled me in a boarding school at Iganmode Grammar School, Ota, and placed me in a private hostel (Ogunseye Girls Hostel), ensuring I had close supervision, structure, and a nurturing environment.
    Even though money was tight, she paid my school fees and hostel fees in installments, traveling long distances to speak with my house mistress, assuring her that she would pay as soon as she received payments from the cardigans she supplied to schools. She visited me frequently, sometimes outside of official visiting days, pleading with my house mistress, saying, “I want the best for Funmi. She is my only daughter. Please take her to church, encourage her to attend fellowship, and watch over her as your own child.” That was the kind of mother she was—one who never left anything to chance when it came to her children’s well-being always backing us and giving us confidence in whatever we are doing. She will say Olorun aran elowo. Modewaleyi e. that what a true mother would say to her own child.
    Her sacrifices did not stop at secondary school. She financed my education at Auchi Polytechnic, then at the Polytechnic Ibadan, and finally, the University of Ibadan. I still remember how she would personally package my belongings and carry them on her head and in her hands, following me from Agege to Ojota to board a bus to school. When I left for my National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) in Imo State, she did the same. She was always there—physically, emotionally, and in every way possible.
    There was a time when misunderstandings strained our relationship, when she was manipulated to go against my wish and I almost lost my love for her. It was one of the most difficult and painful experiences of my life. But I thank God for my father, who helped bring clarity to the situation. Eventually, my mother saw the true picture, and we found our way back to each other. No matter what happened, I could never deny the depth of her love and all that she had done for me. I had already forgiven her long before she even asked. She carried me for nine months, endured the pains of childbirth, and made countless sacrifices to shape my future—I could never take that for granted.
    Mummy, you are my world and my hero. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for you because you did everything for me. Thank you for giving me life, for your love, for your care, and for even extending that same love to my children and husband. The privilege of being fully present with you in your final moments is a gift I will never forget.
    Your love, sacrifices, and legacy will forever live in my heart. Rest well, my dearest mother. I will always love and honor you. Omo olore, omo won ni pasa, kin ba gbo pe agbe ran bo nipasa kin ri mowipe emu ran nifo, omoelejo woriri dina. I will never say goodbye because i know you are with me always, live on abiamo tooto, I love you……

  • Bamikole Romiluyi
    Posted on: Saturday, March 1, 2025 Reply

    My tribute.
    To our darling mum, little did I know that early 2024 was going to be the last time that I was going to be hearing your sweet Ikole dialect in this planet earth whilst I was on a 3 way call with you and Aderannibi. We take solace in the fact that you are with our heavenly creator, the giver of all things . Goodnight ‘Yeye omo’.- Kole Romiluyi- Omo Mama Emily Usin.

  • Apostle Olumuyiwa Longe
    Posted on: Saturday, March 1, 2025 Reply

    “Grateful to God you were the vehicle of my arrival here to fulfil destiny and your unforgettable motherhood from my innocency till your last breadth. privileged to see the angels that came to ferry you to the other side, Glad to have led you the path of righteousness. I know you have joined the cloud of witness and can rest this. From my heart I LOVE YOU AND THANK YOU FOR BEING THE BEST MOTHER. We shall renunite Duly. Rest on Mother

    Olumuyiwa Longe (Son)

  • Oluwafunmilola Aderannibi Adepegba (nee Longe)
    Posted on: Saturday, March 1, 2025 Reply

    A Tribute to My Beloved Mother, Stella Funmilayo Longe (Nee Ogunsakin)
    A mother’s love is the purest form of sacrifice, and my dear mother, Stella Funmilayo Longe, was the very definition of selflessness, resilience, and unconditional love. She was a hardworking woman who stood as the backbone of our family, supporting our father and ensuring that we, her children, had the best opportunities in life.
    Despite not having a formal education, she worked tirelessly, using her craft in cardigan knitting to provide for us. She was warm, accommodating, and a friend to all family members, always putting the needs of her family above her own.
    When my father retired in 1997, life took a difficult turn. I had just started secondary school, and we had moved to Adiyan, a rural area. My mother, determined to give me the best education possible, made a bold decision—she refused to let me suffer through the long daily journey from Adiyan to Agege for school, nor did she want me to settle for a less-equipped school nearby. With the little income she earned from knitting, she enrolled me in a boarding school at Iganmode Grammar School, Ota, and placed me in a private hostel (Ogunseye Girls Hostel), ensuring I had close supervision, structure, and a nurturing environment.
    Even though money was tight, she paid my school fees and hostel fees in installments, traveling long distances to speak with my house mistress, assuring her that she would pay as soon as she received payments from the cardigans she supplied to schools. She visited me frequently, sometimes outside of official visiting days, pleading with my house mistress, saying, “I want the best for Funmi. She is my only daughter. Please take her to church, encourage her to attend fellowship, and watch over her as your own child.” That was the kind of mother she was—one who never left anything to chance when it came to her children’s well-being always backing us and giving us confidence in whatever we are doing. She will say Olorun aran elowo. Modewaleyi e. that what a true mother would say to her own child.
    Her sacrifices did not stop at secondary school. She financed my education at Auchi Polytechnic, then at the Polytechnic Ibadan, and finally, the University of Ibadan. I still remember how she would personally package my belongings and carry them on her head and in her hands, following me from Agege to Ojota to board a bus to school. When I left for my National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) in Imo State, she did the same. She was always there—physically, emotionally, and in every way possible.
    There was a time when misunderstandings strained our relationship, when she was manipulated to go against my wish and I almost lost my love for her. It was one of the most difficult and painful experiences of my life. But I thank God for my father, who helped bring clarity to the situation. Eventually, my mother saw the true picture, and we found our way back to each other. No matter what happened, I could never deny the depth of her love and all that she had done for me. I had already forgiven her long before she even asked. She carried me for nine months, endured the pains of childbirth, and made countless sacrifices to shape my future—I could never take that for granted.
    Mummy, you are my world and my hero. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for you because you did everything for me. Thank you for giving me life, for your love, for your care, and for even extending that same love to my children and husband. The privilege of being fully present with you in your final moments is a gift I will never forget.
    Your love, sacrifices, and legacy will forever live in my heart. Rest well, my dearest mother. I will always love and honor you. Omo olore, omo won ni pasa, kin ba gbo pe agbe ran bo nipasa kin ri mowipe emu ran nifo, omoelejo woriri dina. I will never say goodbye because i know you are with me always, live on abiamo tooto, I love you……

    Oluwafunmilola Aderannibi Adepegba (Nee Longe)

  • Olufisayo Longe
    Posted on: Saturday, March 1, 2025 Reply

    Eyeee Olumii… as I fondly call you. A mother like no other—one who epitomized strength, love, passion, and an unparalleled work ethic. No words can truly capture the depth of your love, which you poured into us—your children, grandchildren, relatives, extended family, and even neighbors. You were a woman whose heart overflowed with love, and you demonstrated it in every way possible, even beyond this world.
    Seyi once told me, “I saw my grandma Olu in my dreams, patting me on the back.” Even in eternity, your love transcends.
    After my father’s passing, my greatest concern was you. I prayed and hoped you would stay with us for at least ten more years—smiling at the thought—but God had His own plans. Who are we to question Him? Even in death, your love for your husband remained unwavering. You stood by him in every possible way, sacrificing so much. Whenever I asked you to come visit, your response was always the same: “I don’t want to leave my husband alone.” Even on your hospital bed, you told Funmi you needed to go home and cook for him. That was when I realized—you were seeing something beyond what we could comprehend.
    You were an inspiring soul, always there for anyone who came to you with their troubles. You comforted them with kind words, wise counsel, and a warm heart. Your home was open to all, and your hospitality made everyone feel valued. “Iye Olu” is a never-ending song in my heart, a melody of comfort, happiness, and love.
    In your own way, you became a mother to so many—even those unrelated by blood. You nurtured and guided countless people from childhood to adulthood. You were a strong advocate for education, always reminding us, “In all thy getting, get educated.” Your marriage to my late father became a reference point for others; people sought your wisdom, and you played a role in resolving family matters.
    You also encouraged both the young and old to embrace your craft—knitting—especially struggling young couples. With gentle persuasion, you urged wives to take up the skill, assuring them it could support their families. You even went further, speaking to their husbands to secure the necessary tools and machines, always reassuring them that their wives would soon become experts. And you didn’t stop there—you went above and beyond, introducing them to organizations where their services would be needed, ensuring they had a foundation to build upon.
    Your love was boundless, your kindness immeasurable, and your legacy everlasting. You were, and always will be, a mother like no other.
    Rest on Stella….Rest Well Funmilayo…..Adieu
    Olufisayo Longe (Son)

  • Adejoke Ojo
    Posted on: Saturday, March 1, 2025 Reply

    A Tribute to My Beloved Aunt, Mrs. Stella Olufunmilayo Longe, Omo Ogunsakin.

    From my earliest memories, you were always there—steadfast, caring, and full of love.

    Aunty mi, Funmilayo, you were not just a relative, but a guiding light in our lives. You have been the rock of our family, the one who carried us all along with your nurturing spirit, especially after the loss of our mother, your dear sister, 22 years ago.

    In the absence of her presence, you filled that void with a love so deep and constant that it has left an indelible mark on all of us. You were, and always will be, an extraordinary mother to us. The way you loved, protected, and cared for us—without hesitation—was a testament to the strength and depth of your heart. Your unwavering commitment to keeping us all together, through every storm and every joy, is something we will never forget.

    You were hardworking, resourceful, resilient, strong, noble, fearless, determined, adventurous, daring, committed and dedicated to the wellbeing of your husband and children.
    You were a lover, so loving and caring towards your husband and his family.
    You struggled and worked hard together with your husband to educate all your children. Thank you for all your struggle and labor, they will forever be remembered. Your Legacy lives on forever, through your children, grand children and rest of your relatives.

    Now, with your passing, there is a larger emptiness, a greater silence in our lives, one that will be difficult, if not impossible, to fill. As I write this tribute, I am again overwhelmed with emotions, knowing that the world is a little less bright without you in it.

    Yet, despite the sadness, I am grateful for the 74 years that God lent you to us. Your life was rich, full of purpose, and left a legacy that will continue to resonate within us.

    Rest on, my beloved Aunty !!! You came, you saw and you conquered, you have fought a good fight, you have ran your race well, there await for you a crown of glory with many stars from your maker !!!.

    Until we meet again on the restoration morning, when there will be no more pain, no more parting, no sorrow and no more goodbyes. You will forever live in our hearts, and your love will continue to guide us. I love 💗 you now and always aunty mi Funmilayo, aya Longe, Mama Olumide, as you are popularly called, even in death, l love 💕you more continue to Rest in Peace at the bossom of your creator. We love 💕 you, but God loves you best !!!
    Omo Olusin, Omo Alasha, Omo Ogunsakin, Omo Aoyo, Omo onigbo asamoju, Igbo ti eyin eku.
    Omo asoro, mao ekoto reni
    Anukanjo anukanhoraran.

    Sunre o !!! Abiyamo tooto, may your rest be forever sweet ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    Adejoke Ojo.

  • Oluwaseun Adebukola Ojo
    Posted on: Saturday, March 1, 2025 Reply

    Words fail me….because your death wasn’t something I taught coming soon, u been am amazing aunt, I remember when mummy pass on I was the one that came to inform you at Adiyan, I never knew how to break the news to you, you had to give me bread nd egg to eat after eating you said we should be going to the hospital at Aboru that was when I told u to call down that I have something to tell u, you broken down totally because you never believed my mom your elder sis is no more until we got to aboru together.
    Never since that day you been an aunt nd a mother to me nd my sibling , u always come around in surulere (Lawanson precisely) were we stayed to check on us until u moved down to Adiyan, when we moved out of Surulere you followed us to Igando together and u spent a night with us.
    Remember when I gave birth to Modupeola u came to Ikorodu were I stay to see him, you brought cardigan cap nd sock for him hoping one day he will definitely meet u in person not knowing God has his own plans for u .
    I will truly miss how you call to check and prayer for me and the kids, felt I will see u again this year when u back from Canada not knowing you are going to pass unto glory.
    Aunty mi like I do call you, you shall never be forgotten.
    Continue to rest in peace ma
    Till we meet to part no more.
    Adieu ma
    OJO OLUWASEUN

  • Idowu Longe
    Posted on: Saturday, March 1, 2025 Reply

    My tribute to a loving mother am grateful to my mother for giving me the life to experience how beautiful this world is, she has always been there for me. Your memory lives forever in my heart. Rest in the bosom of the Lord until we meet again.
    Idowu Longe (Son)

  • Bankole Longe
    Posted on: Wednesday, March 5, 2025 Reply

    Oya ubami Luka!

    Remembering Eyee Olumide, a shining star whose light will never fade. Your kindness, compassion, and generosity inspired countless hearts. Though you may be gone, your legacy lives on through the countless lives you touched. Rest in peace, dear mother. Your memory will be cherished forever.

    Bankole -Phillips Longe

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